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Tuesday, March 6, 2018

The Women of the Church






My uncle, a retired Presbyterian Minister, spoke often and enthusiastically about the role that women played in his congregation. There are not too many groups or organizations that don’t swear by the dedication and hard work of the women working tirelessly behind the scenes to organize food drives, to raise money and to recruit volunteers.

There is a good book, She Hath Been Reading, about women who organized and worked in community projects across the U.S. long before it was fashionable for women to have jobs. They would organize by meeting in groups, often called “Shakespeare Clubs”, where they not only discussed literature, but also ways to raise money and create the first kindergartens, libraries, schools and learning centers in their communities.

The role of women in organizing the first churches has been well documented. Jesus spoke often of the devotion and dedication from the women who followed him as he traveled and taught. And even Paul, who has been criticized frequently for some of the passages that have been interpreted as demeaning to women, is shown in a different light as we look at many of the times in his letters where he praises and lifts up the women who helped to form the early churches in the Christian religion.


The women, with names like Tryphosa, Priscilla, Apphia, Chloe, Phoebe and Junia are all mentioned in Paul’s letters   And their roles were vital in many ways, as Paul is counseling and encouraging, giving advice and helping to organize these groups of Christian men and women who met in homes and gathered together to worship, often in secret, as they were persecuted under Roman occupation.

He speaks in Philippians of Euodia and Syntyche as women who have ‘struggled beside me’ in the work of the gospel. He asks the Lord to help them. He speaks in Romans of Phoebe, who is a deacon of the church in her home town. And he mentions how hard Mary has worked, and also Priscilla and Aquila who ‘risked their necks for my life.’ Paul does acquit himself in these passages of simply talking down to women. It is evident in his letters that these women are vital cogs in the wheel, and without them, without their daily courage and dedication to spreading the word, then Christianity would not have been able to endure as a lasting religion.

That is the importance of women to the cause. And we give thanks to the many groups, the ‘women of the church’ who have dedicated themselves from small tasks such as arranging flowers and handling child care (no small task), to organizing Sunday School classes and teachers and raising money, as well as visiting the sick and elderly within the church community. These are the thankless tasks that have carved out and defined the reality of what the Christian religion has become. And it would not have been possible without the women who laid the foundation, the Church’s strong foundation, upon which our faith is built. God bless the women of the church, and all hard-working and dedicated women who are struggling each day to raise their families and make the world a better place for their children.

Sunday, February 18, 2018

What I Like About You- An essay for the addictions of our times




The things I love about alcoholics and drug addicts, and all who fall into the category of substance-abusers is this; their honesty is humbling to me. They are at times laid bare in their pain and their purely beautiful naked souls are exposed for the world to see.

And there am I, a pathetic creature of habits and deeds, so tied to my fears and love of habitual societal norms, plus the comforts of home, that I begin to despise my own lack of innate trust and childlike innocence. It’s that loss of perception where you cocoon yourself and mask all your innermost thoughts and feelings that makes you feel smugly superior owing to your sense of control. It’s that control that covers all the elements of your life.

The irony? All those elements of your life are mostly out of your control. Nothing but manifest destiny lies before us, and we need to tell ourselves daily lies to subsist. It’s that daily lie that Horace Greeley made us believe. It says that if we work hard enough and play by the rules we shall overcome. It’s pure B.S. as are most of the other cynical lies we live and die by.

What I like about addicts is that they are stripped bare of the lies and the artifice at times. At times their lives are laid raw and open for all of us to see. They expose themselves for a time and the world may see them for what they are. They are childlike creatures.

I know they are many other things. They are selfish and shallow, unthinking and uncaring. They focus purely on the thrill of the moment, and not on the long-term consequences. But they are childlike and trusting liars all. They live by the Code of Addicts, which has no code. It’s all for one and one for one only.

We see ourselves as superior beings, but in the light of day, our judgments will be measured by the same jury of one. We are all stripped bare of the lies we tell ourselves and of the artifice of our lives. These things that are self-evident will hold true. We must forgive the addicts among us. For they are part of the society that bred and raised them. We must own up and accept their sins and failings. They are always with us and they walk among us now. We are them and they are us. They are our friends and lovers, our children and parents. Their failings are our own.

At the end of our lives, our souls are laid open with all our lies exposed. That is why we can never judge the addicted and tormented souls that walk amongst us. We can look in the mirror each day and decide to keep it in or to let it go. In the end, the decision will be out of our hands. We must let go of the rage and terror and frustration we feel and learn to simply hate the sin and love the sinner.

Tuesday, February 13, 2018

The roses on Valentine's Day



This year we find that Valentine’s Day, the Day of Love and for lovers, is intertwined with the beginning of the Christian holy day of Ash Wednesday. It should be a perfect opportunity to marry the two topics, as it seems they have at times been at odds with one another.

Jesus had spoken of the personal quest of each individual as we struggle with our own lives, our own sins and sorrows, and as we fall in love and marry, and then commit to our partners as we grow older, we see our lives change. We strive to become closer to our spouses and partners, and in doing so we want to be able to give of ourselves to the ones we love. That should not be a dilemma, and yet, at times, it seems to be a push and pull on our time, on our senses, and on our mental capacity to be a Christian and to be a loving partner.

The answer, as is the case for all our deepest and darkest fears, is to look to Christ to show us the way. He has told us that he will lift the yoke and carry the burden. And we shall be better for it, as we learn to breathe, take it all in, and to realize that we will never be a perfect yin to the yang of any human, no matter how much we love them. We must look to the scriptures that teach us to deal with the admittedly heavy burdens we often share in life.

God never calls on us to be perfect, but always to have faith and to believe in him. If we can learn to let go, and then to heal ourselves not simply one day at a time, but one hour to the next, and with communion through prayer and with steady faith, we see the path forward. Life has never been guaranteed to be a bed of roses, but the idea of stopping to smell the roses is a perfect metaphor for our enjoyment of life, of love and our commitment to each other on this Valentine’s Day.

Sunday, January 14, 2018

Beyond the Dream with Dr. King




I have a dream…that one day my four little children will one day live in a world where they will not be judged by the color of their skin, but by the content of their character”…. That quote from Reverend Dr. Martin Luther King Jr is by far his most recognizable line from his speeches. But the legacy of Martin Luther King includes many more inspiring quotations from sermons and speeches that the charismatic leader of the Civil Rights movement delivered in his short life of 39 years.



Dr. King was also known for his famous “Letter from Birmingham Jail” speech, which was written and published in 1963, before the March on Washington. This famous essay focused on not only the beliefs he held when he was arrested and jailed in Birmingham, Alabama but also on his disappointment with prominent church leaders of his time who remained silent or admonished him for his activism.





Dr. King had also delivered the “I have a Dream” speech before, at different times and variations, and the passage was so well known to him and his followers that one of the women listening, a prominent African American singer named Mahalia Jackson, was heard to say, “Tell them about the dream, Martin!” while he was speaking that day.



Dr. King spoke of the importance of being active for the causes you passionately believe in. And he was one of the most famous activists who lived his beliefs daily as he “walked the walk” for Civil Rights and later, as he spoke out as an anti-war and peace activist. Martin Luther King was working to help garbage collectors organize and to fight for a decent living wage when he was killed in Memphis in 1968. The actions Dr. King took, and the way he lived his life reinforce the fact that his core beliefs were with him to the end.  And though he is known for the famous “I have a Dream” speech, there were many memorable quotes and moving passages from Martin Luther King Jr. throughout his brief lifetime that stirred people to action. Dr. King was only 39 years old when he died, but in his own words, he noted: “The quality, not the longevity of one’s life is what is important”



Here are a few more of Dr. King’s most famous quotes:



     In the End, we will remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends



                       Faith is taking the first step even when you don’t see the whole staircase



                      Love is the only force capable of transforming an enemy into a friend



                        The moral arc of the universe bends at the elbow of justice


                  We must learn to live together as brothers or perish together as fools

Thursday, September 28, 2017

PCPC Christian Ed: About the Worship Packets






Each week, Palma Ceia Presbyterian Church offers children the opportunity to engage in worship with the Children’s Worship Bulletins found in both the traditional and the Connection services.

The Connection services offers a format for a slightly younger group of children. These bulletins include word puzzles and games to engage them.

In Traditional services, the Bulletins have been customized to include the weekly bulletins that adults are given. These bulletins have been tailored for children, complete with worship icons to follow along during the service and a chance for them to learn about the practices and rituals that are part of the Presbyterian Church.  The weekly hymns and Bible readings are also included, to give each child a helpful tool to guide them as they are learning how to engage in worship.

Each week, we will also include some of the articles and posts that are featured on the PC Website and on the Children’s Ministry Facebook pages. These will include thoughts and ideas about some Current Events as well as the ideas and events that are part of the PCPC Ministry.




Please check the packets to see What’s Coming! Contact marylee@palmaceia.org or Kelly McCord at CE@palmaceia.org if you have suggestions, questions or ideas.

Ways to Help: Immokalee Florida











One of the areas in our region hardest hit from Hurricane Irma was Immokalee, Florida. Thousands of migrant farmworkers live in Immokalee. Their already poor living conditions were damaged even further by the high winds and flooding that knocked out power and damaged homes.

The community was hit hard, but they are resilient. The people that work in the Peace River Presbytery operate a mission in the community. The Mission workers say that there are four areas of need for the community.

1)   Sustainable goods-Food, hygiene products and diapers
2)   Power! They are trying to obtain generators to run freezers and refrigerators
3)   The long-term goal is to develop a Community Garden. Behind the Mission, there is room to plant a garden. The workers here pick pounds of fresh vegetables, and know how to farm the land-but they didn’t’ have a plot to grow their own vegetables!
4)   The fourth need is for long-term housing. Many of the trailers were damaged in Hurricane Irma. Some families even share trailers, and they are charged rent on a weekly or a monthly basis.

One of the members of the Presbyterian Hunger Program who has worked with the people of Immokalee reports that despite their problems and needs both short and long term, there is patience and “gratefulness that people care.”

For more information about ways to help, please go to this link: PDA: Immokalee or contact us at Palma Ceia at marylee@palmaceia.org for more information.


Ways to help: Kits to make for those impacted by Hurricanes






The following list is comprised of some local food pantries in the Tampa Bay area. Here at Palma Ceia Presbyterian Church, we are also connected with the Faith Café, and ask for volunteers to help serve meals in partnership with other area churches. This Friday, September 29th, PCPC will be staffing the Faith Café.  Find out how you can help, by donating food or other supplies by contacting…. 

The phone numbers listed below will help you if your family would like to volunteer time or other items to these local pantries. And in this time of great need, there are kits that you can make up to send out to those who have suffered the loss of their homes in Hurricane Irma and Harvey. The Hygiene kit and the School supplies kit are two of the ways that you might help by assembling the items and mailing them to the address listed below. They are part of the PDA-Presbyterian Disaster Assistance that works to help those in hard hit regions where disaster has struck.


Feeding Hungry Pantry List:

METROPOLITAN MINISTRIES 2

2002 No FL Ave.
Tampa FL 33602

NEW BEGINNINGS OF TAMPA

1402 Chilkoot Ave. E.
Tampa FL 33612

SANTA MARIA MISSION 2

14004 North 15th St.
Tampa FL 33613

PENINSULAR CHRISTIAN CHURCH

3600 W Ballast Point Blvd.
Tampa FL 33611

TAMPA BAY COMMUNITY AND FAMILY

3101 North 34th St.
Tampa FL 33605

ST LUKE AME CHURCH 2

2709 North 25th St.
Tampa FL 33605

TRINITY CAFE 2

2801 N. Nebraska Ave.
Tampa FL 33602

HOLY TRINITY PRESBYTERIAN

350 S. Hyde Park Ave.
Tampa FL 33606

HOGAR RESTAURACION

109 April Ln.
Tampa FL 33613

MOST HOLY REDEEMER 2

10110 N. Central Ave.
Tampa FL 33612

SVDP WEST HILLS DISTRICT

12310 N. Nebraska Ave.
Tampa FL 33612

APOSTOLIC CHURCH OF JESUS

5100 N. Nebraska Ave.
Tampa, FL 33603

REVIVAL MINISTRIES

3738 River International Dr.
Tampa FL 33610

TAMPA JEWISH FAMILY SERVICES 2

13009 Community Campus Dr
Tampa FL 33625

NEW HOPE MISSIONARY BAPTIST CHURCH

3005 E. Ellicott St.
Tampa FL 33610

Gift of the Heart kits are an excellent hands-on project for youth groups, Presbyterian Women and others who want a tangible way to be involved. School Kits and Hygiene Kits are often the most in demand.
·         Cleanup bucket
·         Hygiene kit
·         School kit

A note from Church World Service regarding Baby Kits: Thank you for your support of the CWS Baby Care Kit program. After careful evaluation with CWS program partners and other agencies that had previously received the baby care kits, a decision was made to discontinue the use of baby care kits starting on January 1, 2016. Changes in program directions have helped to guide this change. We are thankful for your years of previous support of these programs. Your work has benefited many families around the world. 

Cleanup Bucket

Photo by Kathy Broyard, PDA NRT
1 — 5-gallon bucket with resealable lid*(Value $75)
5 — scouring pads
7 — sponges, assorted sizes
1 — scrub brush
1 — pkg. cleaning towels (18 reusable, like Easy Wipes®)
1 — 50 oz. or two 25 oz. bottle(s) of liquid laundry detergent
1 — liquid concentrated household cleaner (like Lysol®), 12 oz.
1 — bottle liquid disinfectant dish soap (like Dawn®), 24-28 oz.
1 — 1 pkg. clothespins, 48-50 Clothesline, two 50 ft. or one 100 ft.
5 — dust masks
2 pair — latex gloves (like Playtex®)
1 pair — work gloves
1 — 24 to 28 count roll heavy-duty trash bags (30-45 gallon, remove from carton)
1 — bottle insect repellant (pump, drops or lotion; not aerosol), 6-9 oz.

Please purchase all liquids in plastic bottles. Send only new, unopened materials. Put all items in the plastic bucket, packed securely to avoid damage during shipment, and seal lid with packing tape.

*Some local fast-food restaurants are willing to give pickle buckets (or other 5-gallon buckets with re-sealable lids) or offer them for a small fee. These can be washed out and used for the cleanup buckets.

Hygiene Kit

Photo by Paul Jeffrey, ACT
(Value $15)
1 — hand towel (approximately 16" x 28", no fingertip or bath towels)
1 — washcloth
1 — wide-tooth comb (remove from package)
1 — nail clipper (UPDATE: nail clippers with metal files or emery boards attached are now accepted; remove from package)
1 — bar of soap (bath size in wrapper)
1 — toothbrush (in original packaging)
10 — Band-Aids® or other adhesive bandage strips
Please do not add toothpaste to the Hygiene Kit. Toothpaste which has an extended expiration date will be added to international Hygiene Kit shipments just prior to shipment. Seal all items in a one-gallon plastic bag with a zipper closure.

School Kit

Photo by CWS
(Value $15)
1 — pair of blunt scissors (rounded tip)
3 — 70-count spiral notebooks or tape-bound pads of 8" x 10 1/2" ruled paper or pads with 200-210 sheets of ruled paper. Do not include filler paper.
1 — 30-centimeter ruler (12")
1 — hand-held pencil sharpener
6 — new pencils with erasers
1 — large eraser
1 — box of 24 crayons
1 — cloth bag, 12" x 14" to 14" x 17" finished size cotton cloth bag with cloth handles; pattern available.  (Please, do not use reusable shopping bags or backpacks.)
Pack all items in the cloth bag.  

Packing and Sending "Gift of the Heart" Kits

  • Complete Kits should be packed in boxes with only one type of Kit in each box. However, if you are shipping a small number of different kinds of Kits, they can be combined in one box.
  • Clearly mark the outside of the box with the contents.
  • Complete the mailing form and place it inside the top of your box before sealing it. This will provide the name and address of your group sending the kits for the CWS receiving site, and it gives information about how to share your story with PDA.
  • Secure the boxes with packing tape.
Ship all kits prepaid to one of the following:
Ferncliff Disaster Assistance Center
1720 Ferncliff Road
Little Rock, AR 72223
(501) 821-3063 or (866) 732-6121
OR

Church World Service
Brethren Service Center Annex
601 Main Street
New Windsor, MD 21776-0188
(410) 635-8794